Well, how often should you text a girl you like depends entirely on where in the interaction you currently are. For example, if you haven't even been on a first date .
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I'm thinking I shouldn't really text her today I haven't heard from her as to give her some space ya kno? If they come back, set em on Fire. Text her when you feel like it and reply when you feel like it. Originally Posted by traxchix. Originally Posted by Amb I see what you're saying, but just imo, if you've only gone on a few dates with this girl and haven't even hooked up yet, I wouldn't text her daily. Just comes off as needy to me, but to each their own. Originally Posted by quietstormx1. Any time I'm with her, she either never has her phone on her its tucked away in her bag or almost never checks it.
She also takes long as hell to reply. I mean I don't really care, I'm just curious as to what some of you guys have experienced. As much as possible without smothering him. You wear a rubber? Originally Posted by SteelCrayon. Are we seeing the same chick? I'm in the exact same position, this chock is making me work but hey she seems like an awesome catch.
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Seems like she's playing hard to get. Anyway op text her with small talk and text her as if she's a friend. Text her hey how's the vacation so far? P and see what she replies back. Originally Posted by Viddy. Maybe all three of us is seeing the same chick cos this bish has me working fo' dat matin' wound. I enjoy hearing from a guy who I am dating everyday. As long as you don't send a million texts or call a million times before I respond.
For example, if you text me and I don't respond within 5 minutes you text me again. Just don't do that then you are okay lol. We love to know that you are thinking of us. By talking to us everyday, it helps us know that you like us. To conquer oneself is the best and noblest victory; to be vanquished by one's own nature is the worst and most ignoble defeat-Plato For those who "neg" my reputation JUST because I am a woman and then put that in the description to why you "negged" me, I will do it right back.
Originally Posted by adifferentme3. Is it always you texting her first? Or is it a deal? Good idea though, if you don't hear from her by tomorrow night, just call her. I want no one else to succeed. No pressure text but also let's them know you're still interested. As an anxious dater, I know how you feel. My ex's have always been really big texters, so we'd text all day and most of the evening.
Of course those relationships didn't work out, but it had nothing to do with the texting frequency. So now I'm dating a guy that texts infrequently. Still checks up on me a few times a week but we don't have marathon texts like my past relationships.
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It was worrisome at first, but I've tried to be more laid back about it like he is. And it turns out, it's actually been good for us, and also helped me to be a little more patient. I don't feel the need to self sabotage myself when I don't get new notifications from him. We make plans over text and then spend quality time together.
We also have more things to talk about in person since we didn't talk about it to death over text. You sound like a great guy, and I definitely get where you're coming from, but I know how much it irritates me to have that sort of burden of making conversation while I'm at work put on me.
However, if I like someone, I love just hearing from them in a no obligations kind of way: And you're quite right haha, nobody with a soul would be upset by that! Im 35 and I'm a really bad texter, I even had to put a section on both OKC and Tinder about how I'll leave my phone at home at lot, it's always on silent, etc because so many guys got all pissy about the hours in between replying. I'm just bad at owning a phone!
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That said, I like a phone calls. I was born in the 80s and I like talking to boys on the phone. You can hear tone, laughter, and genuine answers to questions, infinitely better than silly texting!!! Sounds like you've been hard trained by your 2year relationship and you need to reassess how you want to be now. Texting didn't exist in its current form 10 years ago.
People only started carrying phones around with then everywhere about 10 years before that. Some people never jumped on that train.
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I wish the train had crashed and destroyed the track along with it. Texting is the perfect form of self-entitled communication.
I know you know I texted, so you are obligated to respond at some point. Life without the excuses of "I must have been out when you called" or "The cat must have knocked the phone off the hook" is just a little harder than it needs to be. I never apologize for not texting back right away. My phone is supposed to be convenient for me, not everyone else. Hey there, I see a lot of controversial answers here. I would just ask her if it bothers her if you text her too often. That she isn't much of a texter and is not good at keeping text-conversations going doesn't have to mean that she does not enjoy getting texts from you.
How often do you text with a girl you're casually dating? : AskMen
Just texting her a couple of times throughout the week shouldn't do any harm, and won't make you look needy, only like you care. Good luck to you. I'm not trying to be mean, just realistic. This scenario sounds like she's just not that into you. I don't know your situation, but I just can't see her interest when you factor in that y'all have been on 5 dates and she's not interested in anything physical and not interested in texting you. There are some people who simply see someone they're going on dates with as 'a way to pass the time' rather than a potential partner.
I personally don't think it's a good idea to text a girl you're talking to for shits and giggles unless either y'all have known each other for a long time and have developed a rapport or if y'all have already been physical and have developed some kind of connection that way.
Once again, really sorry if my comment comes off as rude, it is not my intention.
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I just don't want you being too invested in what looks like a bad situation from my outside perspective. Maybe try limiting the texting to simple messages "Hey: Good morning" etc then do your own thing, perhaps turn the phone off or go in silent mode for a few hours to be unavailable. Hang out with your friends, take in a movie solo or with friends, etc. I get anxious about the communication stuff when I am dating - "Is she busy? She must be ghosting me. As you've said, she's 35 and has an aura of independence around her so maybe just give her space.
Flip the above feelings around onto her and make her want to hear from you. It may take some time, though.
I wouldn't also recommend a good night text unless you've been texting throughout the day with her. Stick to "Good Morning" every other morning and see if she responds.