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If you dominate what you like first of all then that's a turn off straight away, and make yourself presentable, not that I'm saying you don't already. Just remember that your mates will exaggerate on what they say about their relationships, because if by chance you asked their partner about what they said I.

I grew up in a rural area where the local guys used to have competitions to see how many females they could "have" in a weekend and would mark their conquests with a notch on their steering wheels or dashboard!

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I was determined to not be a part of this culture and moved out of the town, but not before I was almost taken advantage of by three of these guys while I was out walking. My sister was not so lucky and was raped in bed while being the guest of one of these guys mothers. So what kind of guy would I have preferred to have known? I'm not interested in one-night stands or cheap hook-ups.

Like Geoff mentioned, don't worry about what your mates say, do they respect women, are they exaggerating a little, who knows. He also gave you some good tips on how to communicate with people in general. Ask them about themselves, that helps get the conversation going. Hi Doolhof and Geoff, thank you for your replies. My opportunities to meet women have been quite limited.

I live in a rural mining town in QLD. Like most mining towns pretty much the whole social scene revolves around drinking alcohol and partying on the weekend. Last year I met a girl whom I really liked a lot. We became good friends and I really wanted get to know her better as a person. I had high hopes that she really liked me too and I had plans to muster up the courage and ask her on a date. Just as I was about to do that she met someone else and refuses to talk to me now and treats me like I don't exist, which really hurt me a lot.

Why that is I have no idea.

When I would get close to a girl and express my feelings I was always met with rejection with the same old line: This whole thing has battered my self-esteem. Apart from work, I rarely leave the house and I just don't have the passion for life I once had. I'm convinced no girl would possibly want to be with me, so why put myself out there and risk getting hurt like I have time after time. Plus, it's safe to say that most women won't want anything to do with a guy who hasn't even been kissed at the age of I'm so sorry I seem to have been unaware you had made a reply!

I am so very sorry for the lack of communication! I haven't been feeling myself lately due to some unwanted side effects with medication and then needing to come off them. Anyway, besides all of that, how are you getting on? Have you managed to get out of your home recently to join in some social events? Do you have any hobbies or interests that you could become involved in? Are there groups in town you might like to join? Are there nice restaurants about the place? Places to go for a picnic or a walk? Can you invite a small group of people to join you in some kind of activity you would enjoy?

Have you tried dating sites at all? I have no idea at all about them either, but all the ads on t. Having people not answer you back here on this forum can't be helping you feel good about yourself either, so I am very sorry about that! Dude, you are not alone!

I'm a year older than you and have had next to no action either!


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Part of that was because I only really discovered my sexuality a few years ago little slow on the uptake but still -- when it comes to intimacy I'm a complete novice! And that weighed on me for a loooong time.

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But you know what? It's not a big deal. Life works in mysterious ways All these guys you've referenced, who sleep around with countless women? Prob not gonna ever find that someone special!

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I have friends like that, who focus so heavily on the number of girls they can pull - and I think to myself, Are they happy though? You seem like a really decent, intelligent dude. Learn to love yourself! Be comfortable in your own skin. Soon you might start radiating confidence! Humour yourself, you might be surprised by what happens. My parents met when they were in their late twenties, and neither of them had had a relationship before.

And they're still the happiest couple I know. Focus on yourself, your interests and your goals, and trust that the other side of things will work itself out ;. What you wrote caught my attention and since I'm older, allow me to share some advise into the issues from my life experiences.

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I am 56, single, lived on my own all my life, have no children and never been married, so I do understand what you are feeling. First of all, can I please advise you not to try any of those internet dating sites. So forget internet dating for now. It's not the way to go and it will only lower your self esteem from being rejected and that's not what you want at this stage.

Have you tried joining a social group? Depending on where you live, most areas will have a social groups which consist of a vast range of activities that attract singles of all ages. Once you get involved, you will meet people and the idea is to build up a social network of friends, whether it be male or female friends, it doesn't matter. Once you get to know people you get to meet and go out with other people from outside the social group. If you meet a girl that your not interested in, just be friends and you will meet more people from having friends.

Go out to dinners. Enrol in a cooking class. These friends will not pre-judge you simply because you've never been in a relationship. Hi SC, I wish I could offer some helpful advice but unfortunately I'm in much the same boat as you, with many of the same fears regarding lack of relationship experience - only I'm five years older. Well done on having the courage to put yourself out there and approach women that you are interested in; I wish I could say the same for myself!

I'd have to agree with Peter regarding online dating. Competition is fierce and you'll more than likely hurt your self-esteem by partaking in it. Perhaps the more serious sites like eHarmony might be better I haven't tried it , but I can say from experience that services like Oasis, PoF and Tinder should probably be avoided. If you do want to try one of these, then don't let the lack of responses from women get to you.

Please don't think you are a loser mate, not at all, it sucks that you live in such a rural area to but try some cafes and stuff maybe try google and see if there is any social groups: I'm 26 so we are around the same age and I think it's really cool to know there is someone else out there that isn't into hook ups and that.

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I was brought up listening to the "smiths" and all that music that resembled what its like to be a young person and I know how heart wrenching and lonely it is. I started working in a supermarket which is a pretty crappy place to work but had really good social aspect.

I would like maybe not really get into it at first but it goes like this: Also clubs like gym classes you dont have to talk to anyone but you become a regular you talk to someone sometimes then more frequent I had a friend that met there partner playing online games though gaming chics arent people you meet online all the time. Hi everyone, thanks for your replies and input.